Expectations
Love has a lot of expectations.Love in friendships, in families and especially in relationships.
Things a girl loves.
1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
6-hug them
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when your with your friends
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she
cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST!!!
19-tell her she beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-make her feel loved
25-buy them stuff. like small things can still help
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school/work, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even though she doesn't need you just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. When she complains that her neck/shoulders hurts massage it for her.
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
41. call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
geez...that's a lot of things to remember for males alone.
It's so much pressure.
I've been blessed today being able to watch tv all day...and every program was something to do with romance in one way or another. 8 Simple Rules...good program...but it's all about the teenagers finding their true love.
Don't get me wrong...I cannot wait to see who I marry and start a life with my amazing husband and build a family. It's one of the things I hold so close to my heart and I'm so passionate about.
But that's all this world is about now. Just finding their True Love. But the shameful thing is...it's not even total happiness they're looking for.
Looking for:
Cute guy with long dark brown hair, Deep brown eyes, Strong jaw-bone, Toned muscles, Deep voice.
I can't put an image to my 'perfect guy'. Sure there's feature's I would prefer my husband to have. But the thing that grabs at my heart the most, is him. Him deep down.
When I feel his excitment for the vision of the church, the nation, the world.
When I just feel how deep he is.
I love to get to know him. I'll never ever fully get him. And that throws me off completely. Makes my grin beam right across my face.
but this isn't a post about my husband...tis bout this world and how simple minded it is
It's hard for me to easily be in awe on such simple things like the sunsets and the stairs...and then have the rest of the world carry on with their busy life-styles and not even flutter an eyelid. If only people would use contry-walk-styles and not london-city-walk-styles and lifted their head up, they'd be alot calmer, bigger smiles on their faces, and go home to a happy family and have a wonderful evening.
But for now, it feels like I'm dreaming. And we have to make most of what we have now. Which although doesn't seem like alot, it's more than we could have ever asked for.
posted by MissHarwood @ 22:20
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